The referral is in. Someone said "a year, maybe two". You are now in the state this site calls waiting: you want a plan, and you are the perfect customer for anyone selling certainty. This page is the plan, and the part about the sellers.
The wait is a queue for a label, not for help
In Quebec the two are separated on purpose. The Agir tôt program is "intended for children under the age of 7 and their families", and it screens for "signs of developmental difficulties" rather than diagnoses. It is free and voluntary, and the way in is your local CLSC, where "a caseworker will discuss your concerns with you and determine the appropriate service". official
The CIUSSS de l'Ouest-de-l'Île's own FAQ says it plainly for autism concerns in children aged 0 to 5: you "can also access early stimulation services while awaiting diagnosis" through the CLSC's psychosocial reception desk. official Other Montreal territories run the same DI-TSA-DP structure. The name of the door changes; the principle does not.
So the first move is one phone call: your CLSC, asking for Agir tôt and for early stimulation services, and asking them to note the date. If you do not know your CLSC, quebec.ca has a directory, and Info-Social 811 can point you to it.
Five things that can start this month
1. Agir tôt through the CLSC. Expect questionnaires about sleep, language, motor skills and social development, then a conversation with a clinician. Services can include parent support, stimulation activities and "collaboration with daycare/school staff". official Ask specifically for the daycare piece; educators want it.
2. Parent-mediated strategies. The strongest early-intervention evidence is for approaches that teach the parent to follow the child's lead, build shared attention and respond to every attempt to communicate. strong You do not need a diagnosis, a program name or a therapist to start the basics: get down to your child's level, copy what they do, narrate, wait longer than feels natural, and treat every glance, gesture or sound as a turn in a conversation. The full page is What helps early: parent-mediated approaches.
3. Daycare accommodations. Talk to your CPE director now, not after the report. Subsidized childcare services can apply for integration allowances to fund extra support hours for a child with a disability; the request comes from the daycare, with your written consent, and the main gate is eligibility for the Retraite Québec Supplement for Handicapped Children. official That supplement does not require an autism diagnosis; it requires a professional's description of how your child is limited in daily life. See Money and benefits in Quebec.
4. OT or SLP privately, if affordable. A speech-language pathologist (orthophoniste) or occupational therapist (ergothérapeute) who works with you, not just with your child, can turn one hour a week into 30 hours of better everyday interaction. Fees paid to psychologists, SLPs, OTs, psychoeducators and social workers in Quebec are eligible medical expenses on your federal return. official If money is tight, ask for a block of three coaching sessions rather than an open-ended weekly slot.
5. Local organizations. The Fédération québécoise de l'autisme lists regional associations as among the first places to contact; Autisme Montréal's family support service covers navigation, subsidies and accompaniment to meetings when services are refused. Parent groups such as WIAIH in the West Island and the Montreal Centre for Learning Disabilities run parent support groups. None of them ask for a diagnosis at the door. See the Montreal directory.
What "doing" looks like in an ordinary week
- One ten-minute floor-play block a day where you follow, copy and wait. That is the intervention.
- Signs, pictures or a simple communication board for the words your child wants most. These do not delay speech; the evidence points the other way. strong See AAC and signs do not delay speech.
- A short phone note of new sounds, gestures, sleep and meltdowns. Assessment teams love a dated log, and it stops the "is it getting worse?" spiral.
- One thing for you. A parent who is regulated is the best sensory environment a child can have. See Parent burnout: co-regulation first.
Protect yourself from expensive promises
Waiting parents are a market. Some red flags, in plain terms:
- Promises that your child will stop being autistic, or that a "window is closing." No credible clinician in Quebec talks that way. Early support helps; it is not a countdown.
- Hours as proof. "Your child needs 30 to 40 hours a week or you are failing them." The evidence does not support intensity for its own sake for most young children. [Evidence: moderate, contested] See The hours myth.
- Diets, supplements, detox, "biomedical" protocols. No good evidence; some are harmful. See Diets and supplements: honest claims.
- A diagnosis bundled with a therapy contract. Buy the assessment, take it home, decide about therapy separately.
- Anyone who discourages the public route. The public file costs nothing and unlocks the most. Keep it open no matter what else you buy.
A fair test for any offer: does it teach you something you can do at home tomorrow, and can you stop at any time without penalty? If yes to both, it is probably fine.
This week
- Call your CLSC. Ask for Agir tôt and for early stimulation services while awaiting assessment. Write down the date and the name.
- Book ten minutes of floor time a day for seven days: follow, copy, wait.
- Email your CPE director: "We have a referral in. Can we talk about support in the room and the integration allowance?"
Sources
- The Agir tôt program — Gouvernement du Québec, accessed 2026
- Frequently asked questions, ID-ASD-PD — CIUSSS de l'Ouest-de-l'Île-de-Montréal, accessed 2026
- Local community services centre (CLSC) — Gouvernement du Québec, accessed 2026
- Info-Social 811 — Gouvernement du Québec, accessed 2026
- Financial assistance for integrating children with disabilities in childcare services — Gouvernement du Québec (French), accessed 2026
- Authorized medical practitioners for the medical expense tax credit — Canada Revenue Agency, accessed 2026
- Regional autism associations — Fédération québécoise de l'autisme, accessed 2026
- Family support service — Autisme Montréal, accessed 2026
- Services for parents — Montreal Centre for Learning Disabilities, accessed 2026
- WIAIH listing — 211 Grand Montréal, accessed 2026